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CHAPTER
SEVEN
Rebirthing is successful to the extent that what you're doing
with your body permits you to breathe fully and freely.
In the final analysis, your Body and Mind are one, and your Body
and Spirit are one. Your
Body shows you what you're thinking and feelingCor still holding on to
from your past. For example, if you were always
apprehensive as a child, your shoulders are probably chronically
hunched. If you were always
at the ready to become violent, your arms may be character- istically
held out from your sides. If
you were always ashamed to look anyone in the eye, your gaze is probably
always cast down with your head shrunk down toward your chest.
If you're always in a rush to get somewhere, being forceful and
assertive and aggressive, your body is probably bent at the hips so that
the top part of the body is leaning forward like the woman who used to
be portrayed on the Old Dutch cleanser can.
Or if you're reluctant to step forward into your future and you're
still clinging to your past, you're probably leaning back with your legs
going forward, while the upper body is actually at a backwards slant,
like the `Keep on Trucking' sign. Your success with Rebirthing is
dependent upon your breathing musculature's being able to relax.
If you've got your shoulders hunched and your chest caved in and
your belly stuck out, for example, you're certainly not going to be able
to draw a really full breath into your chest.
Various bodywork therapies can help change such habits.
So I wholeheartedly recommend all the forms of body therapy that
help you breathe bigger. During the past thirty years, many
forms of holistic treatment have been introduced to the public.
Most of the new, Western forms depend upon hands-on movement and
manipulation of the body. Probably the first one to gain a
great deal of recognition was Structural Integration, developed by Ida
Rolf and thus usually called "Rolfing".
It is based on the assumption that when a person habitually feels
a certain feeling or is habitually demonstrating a particular attitude,
by his posture, he holds certain muscles tense and immobilized.
As he keeps these muscles from relaxing and moving fluidly, the
fascial sheathes that surrounds each muscle group, as well as each
individual muscle cell, shorten and tighten, and this fascia may even,
in fact, develop adhesions to neighboring fascial sheathes.
The result is that there is less fluidity to movement and more
block-like stasis of the body. Also,
the bodyCand thus the mindCcontinues to experience the emotions that
gave rise to the habitual stance. Whatever the body habitus might be,
Rolfing seeks to alter it by forcibly stretching and separating the
fascial sheathes around the major muscle groups in the body. As the Rolfing strokes open up the body, the associated
emotional blocks are also opened. The
Rolfing program is usually a series of ten sessions, each concentrating
on one part of what Wilhelm Reich called the "body armor."
The first session works on the diaphragm and the intercostal
muscles, as well as the muscles of the waist, to free up the breathing.
The second session concentrates on the abdominals that have been
held tight, especially by people who have trouble eating too much or not
eating enough. Subsequent
sessions work on the muscles of the legs, the arms, the pelvis, the
shoulder girdle, etc. Rolfing is a painful process.
It may cause soreness, even bruising.
Most Rolfers still believe that it is important to feel the pain
so that it "can be integrated into consciousness," whatever that
term means. To me, such
pain has been essentially meaningless. I often wondered if it wouldn't be
possible to anesthetize an individual and do the Rolfing session on him
successfully while he was totally unconscious.
Since it's the muscles and fascia that presumably are holding the
old negative thought and feeling, not the Thinker, what difference could
it make? But I was always
told that doing anything to reduce the pain was a no-no, and that the
pain of Rolfing was part of what made it a therapeutic process. I myself "did" several series
of ten Rolfing sessions. In
fact, moving from my first Rolfer to a second and third, I bought myself
almost one hundred hours of physical torture.
I still believe that whatever benefits I received came from the
freeing up of my fascia, not from my putting up with the intense pain
from the strokes. Another body therapy that gained
wide recognition shortly after Rolfing was first introduced is the form
of joint manipulation that was developed by Dr. Milton Trager.
Unlike Rolfing, Trager work is generally not at all painful.
Indeed, it's often quite playful and pleasurable. Trager work seeks to alter the body's
stance, posture, etc., by gently moving, almost playing, with each
joint, increasing its movement. So,
for example, the head, while supported in two hands, is bounced back and
forth so that the atlas and axis develop more and more freedom of
movement. In a complete session, the Trager
work goes from the neck across the shoulders, down the arms, up the
legs, across the back, across the abdomen, up into the chest, and up
into the head again. The
person gains an increasing sensation of greater fluidity and greater
expansive movement. He can
use his body more effortlessly. Subsequent
sessions go over the body entirely, too, each time increasing its
mobility. I'm not certain that consciousness
during the Trager session is important at all.
It seems to me that if passively moving the joint allows it to
relax and develop greater freedom of movement, then consciousness is not
necessary. I know that Dr.
Trager has indeed worked on people who were anesthetized. Dr. Moshe Feldenkrais was the
innovator of another bodywork which involves not only hands-on work by
the Feldenkrais practitioner, but also self-conscious movement by the
patient. Such
self-awareness is extremely effective in helping people with
birth-related neuromuscular problems like spastic paralysis. Of all forms of "Western"
bodywork, I most enjoy Ortho Bionomy, a form of body work that was
developed by Arthur Lincoln Pauls.
Ortho Bionomy seeks to readjust posture and stance by supporting
the preferred position rather than trying to alter it.
As such, there isn't very much movement to it and there is almost
no discomfort or pain. It
enables the portions of the brain concerned with posture and movement,
especially the cerebellum, to readjust the amount of tension held in
particular muscles, which in turn hold the skeleton in certain
positions. Having the shoulder supported in the preferred tense
position, for example, seems to allow the cerebellum to "decide"
that the shoulder's habitual tension is too great.
When the Ortho Bionomist stops supporting a specific muscle group
or joint, the cerebellum readjusts and goes back to ordering a normal
amount of tension which is experienced as immediate relaxation. Whatever the cause of the held
tension may be, we maintain the chronic position because the
metencephalon centers "regard" that posture as normal or necessary. For example, it's as if our
cerebellum were a thermostat that has decided that a certain amount of
tension in our shoulder muscles is normal.
Thus, although we know intellectually that our shoulders are
tense and hard to the touch, we cannot voluntarily relax the shoulder
muscles. Being stretched by
Rolfing allows them to relax. Being
played with through Trager work allows them to develop greater
flexibilities and more relaxation.
Deliberately and consciously moving in the Feldenkrais patterns
improves movement, too. And,
as just described, Ortho Bionomy also re-sets the muscular tension and
creates greater flexibility. Other forms of bodywork like
Reflexology, Applied Kinesiology, Touch for Health, acupressure, and
acupuncture all work on the philosophy that there is some disturbance of
the flow of energy up and down what are referred to in Eastern medicine
as meridians. If that
energy can be re-routed so that all meridians are receiving a normal
flow of energy, then the organs of the body, including its skeleton and
its musculature, will start performing on a homeostatic basis, an
holistically healthy basis.
All of these Eastern bodywork forms work.
I don't object to any of them.
I think they're all great. But
I have difficulty understanding what the meridians are.
An I also can't understand how we can ever keep our energies
going correctly if just rubbing an arm, for example, in one direction
rather than the opposite way can seriously disrupt the flow of energy.
What happens if we brush against someone in a crowd? Or rub ourselves the "wrong" way when we use a towel?
This isn't to say I think these bodywork forms that are based on
energy flowing in the meridians are hokum.
I don't. I like them
and enjoy them. I just can't
understand them. People often ask, "Is it all
right to get involved with bodywork therapies while we're also involved
with Rebirthing?" And I reply, "Of course, there's
no antithesis between them." I see all these bodywork techniques
as working together with Rebirthing. I don't see them as opposed to each other in any way. I recommend to most of my
Rebirthing clients that they get involved with Trager work or Ortho
Bionomy or Touch for Health work in order to allow their ribcage to open
up more fully so that they can take even bigger, more satisfying
breaths, more effortlessly. For
people with severely distorted and restricted chests, I recommend
Rolfing, although I think that forcibly stretching a muscle isn't as
good as getting that muscle to relax because the mind lets it. Every so often, somebody wants to
Rebirth while simultaneously being Tragered or having a Touch for Health
session. I don't go along
with that. I'm not saying that's wrong.
I'm just saying it's confusing and difficult. After experimenting with myself and several dozen patients, I finally concluded that it's much easier to simply do one therapy or treatment at a time, with one closely following the other. I think it's much better to have
the sessions back to back rather than having a body session one day of
the week, then a Rebirthing session another day of the week.
To the extent possible, I have people who are involved with
bodywork do their body session just before they do their Rebirthing
session with me. I see the
bodywork primarily as facilitating the breathwork. For quite a while, I offered to
clients a lovely way to combine therapies by having them come first to
have a bodywork session with Louis or any of the other body therapists
that I work with most closely. Then,
once they felt relaxed and open, we started the breathing segment, using
the ideal Rebirthing breath, breathing for an hour.
I found that people simply blossomed and thrived with that
approach. Another combined approach that I
offered consisted of three sessions: first, a conference session with me
for an hour or two, in which we worked on establishing specific
affirmations to handle the client's negatives; this was followed by a
bodywork session with Louis who, being extensively trained in all the
bodywork forms mentioned in this chapter, could be eclectic about which
technique he used on the client's outstanding restrictions of chest
movement; and third, a wet Rebirth session in my hot tub.
The people who came on the weekends when such a Athree-ring
circus" was offered all enjoyed it hugely and felt they received immense
benefits. In this connection, I have found
that sending Rebirthing clients to bodyworkers who are not involved with
the breath or clean diets doesn't seem to work well. The bodywork therapists that I
refer Rebirthing clients to are people who have Rebirthed extensively and
are well acquainted with Rebirthing, and also are people who acknowledge
that diet is a major factor in the production of tension and pain in the
body. This doesn't mean that I only make
referrals to people who are vegetarians or people who are primarily
committed to the Fit for Life diet.
But it does mean that I won't make referrals to therapists who do
not acknowledge the effect of delayed allergic food reactions on the
musculature and joints. So first I recommend that before
you become involved with bodywork, you pay attention to what you're
eating. Make sure that you're
putting living foods that are not allergenic, offending foods into your
body at every meal.
It's really easy for me to stay on a diet of foods that are good
for me. Then get yourself some bodywork so
you can breathe as fully and freely as possible.
It's really easy for me to maintain a healthy posture that allows
me to breathe fully to the top of my chest.
Then practice the Rebirthing breath and change the way you think by
correcting your primary negative thoughts with affirmations that, if
necessary, you force yourself to use habitually, so that you're training
your Thinker to think differently.
The more fully and freely I breathe, the more positive my Thoughts
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